Why women settle?

So this note was inspired by myself, and a couple other situations that I've noticed.... And my idea is to understand why we as women settle, specifically with MEN. We as women always settle for LESS than what we deserve from guys.... It must be a universal thing. But settling for a GUY because you are afraid to be alone is the WORST thing you could possibly do because in the end no one will be hurt but you. We as women have to understand that a man will ONLY do what you allow him to do, nothing more and nothing less. All I'm saying is, find a guy who is WORTH settling for, not some guy who you think will change and everything will become a fairytale, because the more you live in a dream, the harder it is for you to awake. (Let that marinate) We as women should stop letting guys trample over us just for the sake to say we have a MAN! You will never be happy with any guy you meet, good or bad, if you are not first happy with yourself. We all fall victim to a guy that you really like a great deal, hell may even love, but if they guy that you are so head over heals for does not reciprocate that same affection then what is the point of continuing to deal with him??? Every girl has a guy that they just can NOT let go, but if you DID let them go I PROMISE that you will find a guy who gives u everything you thought that guy was giving you a plenty more. As Kevin Hart says we put guys on too high of a pedestal... No that’s not the case! You just have to find the RIGHT guy that will SIT high on that pedestal with you. I’m not saying that I am perfect, I feel included in this letter just as much as any other girl, but we DESERVE soooo much better as women and until you think you deserve better as well, you will never find it. All self worth definitely comes from within, and it just takes some longer than others to realize that. So the next guy you are involved with ask yourself... "Is he making me happy and is he bringing out the best in me for US?" If your answer is negative then you already know what you should do. The saying says "Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot" and that statement couldn’t be more true! By Jahnna L. Hunter www.twitter.com/sexychoklit jahnna.hunter@asurams.edu